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So I am a beginner to D&D and I chose to be chaotic neutral for the freedom of basically doing whatever I want and I was wondering if I was starting to be "that guy?" By that, I was hoping you know that people could tell me what counts as "that guy."



One example of a problematic incident was when I walked into a magic shop and the shopkeeper has no powers and seems to be well fed and moderately wealthy. My character suggests tying him up and taking his stuff (including a bag of holding, the cause of all this). I want to let him go afterwards with about half his stuff. I was planning to blame it on the rising number of cultists who worship Tieamont and desperately need to arm themselves.



The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.



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So I am a beginner to D&D and I chose to be chaotic neutral for the freedom of basically doing whatever I want and I was wondering if I was starting to be "that guy?" By that, I was hoping you know that people could tell me what counts as "that guy."



One example of a problematic incident was when I walked into a magic shop and the shopkeeper has no powers and seems to be well fed and moderately wealthy. My character suggests tying him up and taking his stuff (including a bag of holding, the cause of all this). I want to let him go afterwards with about half his stuff. I was planning to blame it on the rising number of cultists who worship Tieamont and desperately need to arm themselves.



The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.



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So I am a beginner to D&D and I chose to be chaotic neutral for the freedom of basically doing whatever I want and I was wondering if I was starting to be "that guy?" By that, I was hoping you know that people could tell me what counts as "that guy."



One example of a problematic incident was when I walked into a magic shop and the shopkeeper has no powers and seems to be well fed and moderately wealthy. My character suggests tying him up and taking his stuff (including a bag of holding, the cause of all this). I want to let him go afterwards with about half his stuff. I was planning to blame it on the rising number of cultists who worship Tieamont and desperately need to arm themselves.



The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.



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So I am a beginner to D&D and I chose to be chaotic neutral for the freedom of basically doing whatever I want and I was wondering if I was starting to be "that guy?" By that, I was hoping you know that people could tell me what counts as "that guy."



One example of a problematic incident was when I walked into a magic shop and the shopkeeper has no powers and seems to be well fed and moderately wealthy. My character suggests tying him up and taking his stuff (including a bag of holding, the cause of all this). I want to let him go afterwards with about half his stuff. I was planning to blame it on the rising number of cultists who worship Tieamont and desperately need to arm themselves.



The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.



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Consider the tone of the game.



The first thing to do is make sure everyone is on board with the tone of the game. You said you wanted a character that could do whatever they wanted. Sometimes that is perfectly appropriate. IN a light-hearted game meant to have plenty of comedy it may be appropriate to do truly random things because they are funny, or silly, or just amusing. That can be great, as long as everyone is on the same page.



Similarly, in a "villainous" or "evil" game, deciding to rob a shop-keeper may be completely appropriate. If the entire group is not "villainous" or "evil" though such an action could be expected to create inter-party tension and should either be avoided or done in such a way as to avoid the conflict.



Consider the impacts of your actions on the group and the world.



In any game, you should consider the impact of your actions on your group. That is the main way you avoid being "that guy". That doesn't mean you avoid all inter-group disagreements. Inter-party conflict can be a story in itself. But it means you do things thoughtfully, keeping the impact of your actions on the group and the story in mind. Depending on your group dynamics, it may mean discussing possible ramifications out of character before you do something in character.



Also, in a game meant to be played seriously (not all are), consider the way the world will react. Robbing a shopkeeper that has enough connections and resources to hire a mage to cast divinition to help with the investigation may mean that your character is wanted, while a less well off shopkeeper might prove a far safer target. Again, this doesn't mean you necessarily need to avoid doing it. Sneaking in and robbing a target is a time-honored part of many RPGs for characters with certain moral persuasions. But it does mean that you need to plan for both the likely later consequences as well as the immediate security needed to accomplish the robbery. It also means you need to consider how that fallout could affect the larger team if they are not all of the same moral persuasion.



Consider the spotlight



Also, when considering the impact of your actions on your group, remember to consider how the spot-light is shared. One possible approach to resolving the particular problem described might be to handle the robbery as a solo operation or with a smaller sub-group. But if you do that during the main groups gaming time that means that, unless handled with enormous care, you will be taking most or all of the spot-light for an extended period. It isn't always wrong for one player to have the spot-light for even an extended period, but it needs to be balanced out in some way for the others and it should be handled with the impact on the others in mind.



Even if you convince the entire group to come, it still means that the focus of the game at least for a while is on your chosen side-quest rather than the main plot. If the others aren't particularly interested in that side-quest it still shifts the focus in a way they may not like. That could be part, possibly the main part, of why they get irritable when you fixate on the plan in question. For busy people, and everyone at least thinks they are busy, game time can be precious and even having it side-tracked in game can be annoying.



Don't let alignment be a straightjacket.



Remember that alignment is meant mostly to be a description and not a straightjacket, especially in later editions like 5e. A lawful good character may be able to justify stealing under extreme circumstances and a chaotic evil character may well find charitable actions appropriate under some circumstances. Alignment can be changed and even without formally changing it, it should not be viewed as something which constrains a character's particular choices in a moment.



This especially applies when you think playing out your alignment in a certain way will lessen the overall fun for the group.






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Be Careful with a "Do Whatever I Want" Character Dynamic.



On the one hand letting your character dictate everything you do is problematic and means potentially giving up all decision making as a player, which starts to become more an acting exercise than a game. However a character who acts with no personality beyond what the player feels like doing at the moment is hardly a character at all. There is a reason the whole inspiration mechanic was introduced to reward players who make a character-based decision that is suboptimal as a game choice: it makes for a more immersive and interesting game experience through good roleplaying, at least theoretically.



It may be that, do to an inconsistency of behavior, your group is finding your character underdeveloped and having trouble investing in him enough to accommodate his wishes, or just objecting to a somewhat "powergame"-ish move or a "murder hobo" playstyle. I am not trying to criticise or mischaracterize your playstyle (your fun is not wrong!), but simply draw attention to how it might not be meshing with this particular group.



If it is a matter of them just not liking this dynamic in your character there are ways you might be able to persuade them otherwise. You might try to make your character's audacious behavior as entertaining as possible, or make him a sympathetic person trying to do good but forever drawn to temptation. It may even be that playing up the "do whatever he wants" to the hilt will work for them just fine if you just provide compelling enough character reasons for why he thinks and acts the way he does.



You also seem to have a conception of a chaotic neutral alignment that many people, including perhaps your group, would find dubious. It is hard to argue that robbing and holding captive an innocent person for pure personal gain is not evil (if that is what you are doing). Although moral neutrality has a lot of leeway, a person who frequently does evil things is evil in many people's book whether they do good at other times or not. Reasonable minds vary wildly in how they think alignments should be defined and applied. This may be rubbing other players the wrong way or just not something they think their characters would reasonably participate in (even if they would tolerate you doing it solo).



The group might feel different about the plan if there is a greater good or at least some greater adventure purpose behind it (ie: "We need these health potions to survive our showdown with a legendary dragon!"). It sounds like there isn't, or they don't think there is. Bear in mind that there is a substantial risk of the group becoming wanted criminals if they pursue your plan, and although your "blame it on the cultists" scheme is clever (and fun!), it may well come down to passing a single deception roll, which is no guarantee of it working. Many DM's like to come up with complications for this sort of thing because it generates more adventure. This may be a simple matter of the risk v. reward not seeming worthwhile to them, in which case the best angle might be to figure out ways to eliminate (or at least persuade them that you have eliminated) the risk.



Once again I am not trying to suggest that you are playing "wrong" or that you can not have many rewarding experiences playing with this group even if they play a little different than you. Nor do I really know much of anything about you or your group and the social dynamics that actually have arisen therein in or out of game. But I do think you have to account for the possible issues above, which may strike with or without anyone realizing. You should talk with them about what is going on out of and/or in character to make whatever precisely is making you and possibly them unhappy with how things are going. You don't necessarily need to make a big deal about it, some groups need only a slight sharing of perspectives to come to a quick compromise.






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    Your party needs a reason not to dump you for being more trouble than you're worth. By breaking group cohesion, you will become "That Guy." It's up to you whether or not you want to test their flexibility, because ultimately D&D is about everyone having fun.



    This was the conclusion that my personal group made when we were discussing the drug abusing habits of our Dragonborn Druid in our current campaign. Our Dragonborn player, for whatever reason, really wanted to roleplay a drug addict that constantly needed her fix. This of course came at odds with NPC interaction, where the drug use, relapses, and other 'quirks' became a big pain point when the party was trying to get things done. The drug addict wanted to do drug addict things; the party wanted to go on quests and make allies.



    Ultimately, we had to talk amongst ourselves and basically tell that player that the party needs a reason why they wouldn't kick this person to the curb immediately. Outside of IRL connection, there's no sane reason why a party would want to quest with her. And this is going to be a key point you're going to have to face.



    Neither of you are in the wrong for what you enjoy, but it does need to be cleared up so that this does not become a point of contention. You must talk about it with the other players and come to some sort of agreement about gameplay desires.



    If your fun is that at odds with the group, you will be better served by finding a new group, and they would be happier off as well. If this is not a possibility, you must consider adjusting your playstyle.






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      Listen to your fellow players



      Unless you all agreed ahead of the time that internal party strife, or PvP, is part of how your gaming group will enjoy this game, going out of your way to create internal conflict will detract from, not add to, the fun you all have at the table as a group of people playing a game.



      You are the new player. You want to be chaotic neutral, disruptive, and do "anything you want." This is a symptom of My Guy Syndrome.




      The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




      That bolded part is a pretty good clue that something needs to change. You are, to put it bluntly, a fish out of water as both a player and a character.



      So what do I do, Korvin?



      First step is: be a better team player in a way that also progresses your character's in-character goals.



      • Alternate first step is to create a different character that isn't an "I do
        what a want and you all deal with the consequences" person in a party
        mostly full of people working as a team.

      Second Step is: after your have all adventured together enough to get into Tier 2 play, you may find that some intra-party disputes/conflict is OK as a group, and fun. PvP can be fun. Work that out with your fellow players rather than dropping it on them as a fait accompli, which is what you are doing now.



      The game's core assumption is that a party is a team



      D&D 5e's tacit assumption is that (particularly at early levels) the party is working together during adventures. Tier 1 (levels 1-4) is even described as being undertaken by apprentice adventurers. (Basic Rules, p. 12)




      In the first tier (levels 1–4), characters are effectively apprentice
      adventurers. They are learning the features that define them as
      members of particular classes, including the major choices that flavor
      their class features as they advance (such as a wizard’s Arcane
      Tradition or a fighter’s Martial Archetype). The threats they face are
      relatively minor, usually posing a danger to local farmsteads or
      villages. In the second tier (levels 5–10), characters come into their
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      Bottom Line Recommendation



      Be a better team player, at least until you are no longer a beginner. Work out a mutually agreeable phase of the campaign where more PvP style play is acceptable, or if it ever will be with this play group.



      Optional recommendation



      There are some other games, like Paranoia, that are explicitly Player versus Player. Maybe one night you can all take a break from D&D and play that game to have some PVP fun.



      Why do I advise this as your course of action?



      Because we play games to have fun, and creating player-on-player conflict in a cooperatively based games frequently wrecks the fun. I have even seen some friendships ruined IRL from friction created during a game.

      Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, please do let it happen to you.






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        Take responsibility, apologize, and move forward collaboratively.



        Recognize that the players make the decisions.



        Role playing is essentially:



        1. The DM describes the environment.

        2. The player decides what to do.

        3. The player role plays that decision by describing what a character does.

        4. The DM narrates the results of their actions.

        Each player is responsible for the decisions. The characters are just some text on a page that are a tool for role playing. Recognizing this helps avoid my guy syndrome



        Apologize if you feel it's appropriate



        It's no small feat to recognize when others are irritated or uncomfortable.




        the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




        A simple, honest, and straight-forward apology in the event misstepp (even without wrong doing) can make a big impact. E.g. "I'm sorry. I didn't read the room as well as I thought I had."



        Collaborate and listen



        Make decisions that are copacetic with the other players and characters. Allow your ideas and plans to be flexible.



        Be tempered by your companions.



        Have the character remark what their initial impulse is to do, but reflect that their party probably wouldn't like it. E.g. "My ol' uncle would 'ave jus' tied the plump hawker up an' taken the lot... but I guess we can not do that this time."



        Maybe make the initial desire to do wrong and be reigned in by the expressions of the other characters a running gag, or perhaps a chance for character growth. Likely, a time will crop up where the party will want to leverage the nature of the scoundrel character.






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          Consider the tone of the game.



          The first thing to do is make sure everyone is on board with the tone of the game. You said you wanted a character that could do whatever they wanted. Sometimes that is perfectly appropriate. IN a light-hearted game meant to have plenty of comedy it may be appropriate to do truly random things because they are funny, or silly, or just amusing. That can be great, as long as everyone is on the same page.



          Similarly, in a "villainous" or "evil" game, deciding to rob a shop-keeper may be completely appropriate. If the entire group is not "villainous" or "evil" though such an action could be expected to create inter-party tension and should either be avoided or done in such a way as to avoid the conflict.



          Consider the impacts of your actions on the group and the world.



          In any game, you should consider the impact of your actions on your group. That is the main way you avoid being "that guy". That doesn't mean you avoid all inter-group disagreements. Inter-party conflict can be a story in itself. But it means you do things thoughtfully, keeping the impact of your actions on the group and the story in mind. Depending on your group dynamics, it may mean discussing possible ramifications out of character before you do something in character.



          Also, in a game meant to be played seriously (not all are), consider the way the world will react. Robbing a shopkeeper that has enough connections and resources to hire a mage to cast divinition to help with the investigation may mean that your character is wanted, while a less well off shopkeeper might prove a far safer target. Again, this doesn't mean you necessarily need to avoid doing it. Sneaking in and robbing a target is a time-honored part of many RPGs for characters with certain moral persuasions. But it does mean that you need to plan for both the likely later consequences as well as the immediate security needed to accomplish the robbery. It also means you need to consider how that fallout could affect the larger team if they are not all of the same moral persuasion.



          Consider the spotlight



          Also, when considering the impact of your actions on your group, remember to consider how the spot-light is shared. One possible approach to resolving the particular problem described might be to handle the robbery as a solo operation or with a smaller sub-group. But if you do that during the main groups gaming time that means that, unless handled with enormous care, you will be taking most or all of the spot-light for an extended period. It isn't always wrong for one player to have the spot-light for even an extended period, but it needs to be balanced out in some way for the others and it should be handled with the impact on the others in mind.



          Even if you convince the entire group to come, it still means that the focus of the game at least for a while is on your chosen side-quest rather than the main plot. If the others aren't particularly interested in that side-quest it still shifts the focus in a way they may not like. That could be part, possibly the main part, of why they get irritable when you fixate on the plan in question. For busy people, and everyone at least thinks they are busy, game time can be precious and even having it side-tracked in game can be annoying.



          Don't let alignment be a straightjacket.



          Remember that alignment is meant mostly to be a description and not a straightjacket, especially in later editions like 5e. A lawful good character may be able to justify stealing under extreme circumstances and a chaotic evil character may well find charitable actions appropriate under some circumstances. Alignment can be changed and even without formally changing it, it should not be viewed as something which constrains a character's particular choices in a moment.



          This especially applies when you think playing out your alignment in a certain way will lessen the overall fun for the group.






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            $begingroup$
            I might also add something about the role of alignments with regard to deciding what is fun for the group (eg they shouldn't be important and such things often lead to My Guy problems) since OP seems to be fixated on that concept (And indeed it was actually the original focus of the Q before we changed it to something answerable)
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          $begingroup$

          Consider the tone of the game.



          The first thing to do is make sure everyone is on board with the tone of the game. You said you wanted a character that could do whatever they wanted. Sometimes that is perfectly appropriate. IN a light-hearted game meant to have plenty of comedy it may be appropriate to do truly random things because they are funny, or silly, or just amusing. That can be great, as long as everyone is on the same page.



          Similarly, in a "villainous" or "evil" game, deciding to rob a shop-keeper may be completely appropriate. If the entire group is not "villainous" or "evil" though such an action could be expected to create inter-party tension and should either be avoided or done in such a way as to avoid the conflict.



          Consider the impacts of your actions on the group and the world.



          In any game, you should consider the impact of your actions on your group. That is the main way you avoid being "that guy". That doesn't mean you avoid all inter-group disagreements. Inter-party conflict can be a story in itself. But it means you do things thoughtfully, keeping the impact of your actions on the group and the story in mind. Depending on your group dynamics, it may mean discussing possible ramifications out of character before you do something in character.



          Also, in a game meant to be played seriously (not all are), consider the way the world will react. Robbing a shopkeeper that has enough connections and resources to hire a mage to cast divinition to help with the investigation may mean that your character is wanted, while a less well off shopkeeper might prove a far safer target. Again, this doesn't mean you necessarily need to avoid doing it. Sneaking in and robbing a target is a time-honored part of many RPGs for characters with certain moral persuasions. But it does mean that you need to plan for both the likely later consequences as well as the immediate security needed to accomplish the robbery. It also means you need to consider how that fallout could affect the larger team if they are not all of the same moral persuasion.



          Consider the spotlight



          Also, when considering the impact of your actions on your group, remember to consider how the spot-light is shared. One possible approach to resolving the particular problem described might be to handle the robbery as a solo operation or with a smaller sub-group. But if you do that during the main groups gaming time that means that, unless handled with enormous care, you will be taking most or all of the spot-light for an extended period. It isn't always wrong for one player to have the spot-light for even an extended period, but it needs to be balanced out in some way for the others and it should be handled with the impact on the others in mind.



          Even if you convince the entire group to come, it still means that the focus of the game at least for a while is on your chosen side-quest rather than the main plot. If the others aren't particularly interested in that side-quest it still shifts the focus in a way they may not like. That could be part, possibly the main part, of why they get irritable when you fixate on the plan in question. For busy people, and everyone at least thinks they are busy, game time can be precious and even having it side-tracked in game can be annoying.



          Don't let alignment be a straightjacket.



          Remember that alignment is meant mostly to be a description and not a straightjacket, especially in later editions like 5e. A lawful good character may be able to justify stealing under extreme circumstances and a chaotic evil character may well find charitable actions appropriate under some circumstances. Alignment can be changed and even without formally changing it, it should not be viewed as something which constrains a character's particular choices in a moment.



          This especially applies when you think playing out your alignment in a certain way will lessen the overall fun for the group.






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            $begingroup$
            I might also add something about the role of alignments with regard to deciding what is fun for the group (eg they shouldn't be important and such things often lead to My Guy problems) since OP seems to be fixated on that concept (And indeed it was actually the original focus of the Q before we changed it to something answerable)
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          Consider the tone of the game.



          The first thing to do is make sure everyone is on board with the tone of the game. You said you wanted a character that could do whatever they wanted. Sometimes that is perfectly appropriate. IN a light-hearted game meant to have plenty of comedy it may be appropriate to do truly random things because they are funny, or silly, or just amusing. That can be great, as long as everyone is on the same page.



          Similarly, in a "villainous" or "evil" game, deciding to rob a shop-keeper may be completely appropriate. If the entire group is not "villainous" or "evil" though such an action could be expected to create inter-party tension and should either be avoided or done in such a way as to avoid the conflict.



          Consider the impacts of your actions on the group and the world.



          In any game, you should consider the impact of your actions on your group. That is the main way you avoid being "that guy". That doesn't mean you avoid all inter-group disagreements. Inter-party conflict can be a story in itself. But it means you do things thoughtfully, keeping the impact of your actions on the group and the story in mind. Depending on your group dynamics, it may mean discussing possible ramifications out of character before you do something in character.



          Also, in a game meant to be played seriously (not all are), consider the way the world will react. Robbing a shopkeeper that has enough connections and resources to hire a mage to cast divinition to help with the investigation may mean that your character is wanted, while a less well off shopkeeper might prove a far safer target. Again, this doesn't mean you necessarily need to avoid doing it. Sneaking in and robbing a target is a time-honored part of many RPGs for characters with certain moral persuasions. But it does mean that you need to plan for both the likely later consequences as well as the immediate security needed to accomplish the robbery. It also means you need to consider how that fallout could affect the larger team if they are not all of the same moral persuasion.



          Consider the spotlight



          Also, when considering the impact of your actions on your group, remember to consider how the spot-light is shared. One possible approach to resolving the particular problem described might be to handle the robbery as a solo operation or with a smaller sub-group. But if you do that during the main groups gaming time that means that, unless handled with enormous care, you will be taking most or all of the spot-light for an extended period. It isn't always wrong for one player to have the spot-light for even an extended period, but it needs to be balanced out in some way for the others and it should be handled with the impact on the others in mind.



          Even if you convince the entire group to come, it still means that the focus of the game at least for a while is on your chosen side-quest rather than the main plot. If the others aren't particularly interested in that side-quest it still shifts the focus in a way they may not like. That could be part, possibly the main part, of why they get irritable when you fixate on the plan in question. For busy people, and everyone at least thinks they are busy, game time can be precious and even having it side-tracked in game can be annoying.



          Don't let alignment be a straightjacket.



          Remember that alignment is meant mostly to be a description and not a straightjacket, especially in later editions like 5e. A lawful good character may be able to justify stealing under extreme circumstances and a chaotic evil character may well find charitable actions appropriate under some circumstances. Alignment can be changed and even without formally changing it, it should not be viewed as something which constrains a character's particular choices in a moment.



          This especially applies when you think playing out your alignment in a certain way will lessen the overall fun for the group.






          share|improve this answer











          $endgroup$



          Consider the tone of the game.



          The first thing to do is make sure everyone is on board with the tone of the game. You said you wanted a character that could do whatever they wanted. Sometimes that is perfectly appropriate. IN a light-hearted game meant to have plenty of comedy it may be appropriate to do truly random things because they are funny, or silly, or just amusing. That can be great, as long as everyone is on the same page.



          Similarly, in a "villainous" or "evil" game, deciding to rob a shop-keeper may be completely appropriate. If the entire group is not "villainous" or "evil" though such an action could be expected to create inter-party tension and should either be avoided or done in such a way as to avoid the conflict.



          Consider the impacts of your actions on the group and the world.



          In any game, you should consider the impact of your actions on your group. That is the main way you avoid being "that guy". That doesn't mean you avoid all inter-group disagreements. Inter-party conflict can be a story in itself. But it means you do things thoughtfully, keeping the impact of your actions on the group and the story in mind. Depending on your group dynamics, it may mean discussing possible ramifications out of character before you do something in character.



          Also, in a game meant to be played seriously (not all are), consider the way the world will react. Robbing a shopkeeper that has enough connections and resources to hire a mage to cast divinition to help with the investigation may mean that your character is wanted, while a less well off shopkeeper might prove a far safer target. Again, this doesn't mean you necessarily need to avoid doing it. Sneaking in and robbing a target is a time-honored part of many RPGs for characters with certain moral persuasions. But it does mean that you need to plan for both the likely later consequences as well as the immediate security needed to accomplish the robbery. It also means you need to consider how that fallout could affect the larger team if they are not all of the same moral persuasion.



          Consider the spotlight



          Also, when considering the impact of your actions on your group, remember to consider how the spot-light is shared. One possible approach to resolving the particular problem described might be to handle the robbery as a solo operation or with a smaller sub-group. But if you do that during the main groups gaming time that means that, unless handled with enormous care, you will be taking most or all of the spot-light for an extended period. It isn't always wrong for one player to have the spot-light for even an extended period, but it needs to be balanced out in some way for the others and it should be handled with the impact on the others in mind.



          Even if you convince the entire group to come, it still means that the focus of the game at least for a while is on your chosen side-quest rather than the main plot. If the others aren't particularly interested in that side-quest it still shifts the focus in a way they may not like. That could be part, possibly the main part, of why they get irritable when you fixate on the plan in question. For busy people, and everyone at least thinks they are busy, game time can be precious and even having it side-tracked in game can be annoying.



          Don't let alignment be a straightjacket.



          Remember that alignment is meant mostly to be a description and not a straightjacket, especially in later editions like 5e. A lawful good character may be able to justify stealing under extreme circumstances and a chaotic evil character may well find charitable actions appropriate under some circumstances. Alignment can be changed and even without formally changing it, it should not be viewed as something which constrains a character's particular choices in a moment.



          This especially applies when you think playing out your alignment in a certain way will lessen the overall fun for the group.







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            I might also add something about the role of alignments with regard to deciding what is fun for the group (eg they shouldn't be important and such things often lead to My Guy problems) since OP seems to be fixated on that concept (And indeed it was actually the original focus of the Q before we changed it to something answerable)
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          • 2




            $begingroup$
            I might also add something about the role of alignments with regard to deciding what is fun for the group (eg they shouldn't be important and such things often lead to My Guy problems) since OP seems to be fixated on that concept (And indeed it was actually the original focus of the Q before we changed it to something answerable)
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          I might also add something about the role of alignments with regard to deciding what is fun for the group (eg they shouldn't be important and such things often lead to My Guy problems) since OP seems to be fixated on that concept (And indeed it was actually the original focus of the Q before we changed it to something answerable)
          $endgroup$
          – Rubiksmoose
          2 hours ago





          $begingroup$
          I might also add something about the role of alignments with regard to deciding what is fun for the group (eg they shouldn't be important and such things often lead to My Guy problems) since OP seems to be fixated on that concept (And indeed it was actually the original focus of the Q before we changed it to something answerable)
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          Be Careful with a "Do Whatever I Want" Character Dynamic.



          On the one hand letting your character dictate everything you do is problematic and means potentially giving up all decision making as a player, which starts to become more an acting exercise than a game. However a character who acts with no personality beyond what the player feels like doing at the moment is hardly a character at all. There is a reason the whole inspiration mechanic was introduced to reward players who make a character-based decision that is suboptimal as a game choice: it makes for a more immersive and interesting game experience through good roleplaying, at least theoretically.



          It may be that, do to an inconsistency of behavior, your group is finding your character underdeveloped and having trouble investing in him enough to accommodate his wishes, or just objecting to a somewhat "powergame"-ish move or a "murder hobo" playstyle. I am not trying to criticise or mischaracterize your playstyle (your fun is not wrong!), but simply draw attention to how it might not be meshing with this particular group.



          If it is a matter of them just not liking this dynamic in your character there are ways you might be able to persuade them otherwise. You might try to make your character's audacious behavior as entertaining as possible, or make him a sympathetic person trying to do good but forever drawn to temptation. It may even be that playing up the "do whatever he wants" to the hilt will work for them just fine if you just provide compelling enough character reasons for why he thinks and acts the way he does.



          You also seem to have a conception of a chaotic neutral alignment that many people, including perhaps your group, would find dubious. It is hard to argue that robbing and holding captive an innocent person for pure personal gain is not evil (if that is what you are doing). Although moral neutrality has a lot of leeway, a person who frequently does evil things is evil in many people's book whether they do good at other times or not. Reasonable minds vary wildly in how they think alignments should be defined and applied. This may be rubbing other players the wrong way or just not something they think their characters would reasonably participate in (even if they would tolerate you doing it solo).



          The group might feel different about the plan if there is a greater good or at least some greater adventure purpose behind it (ie: "We need these health potions to survive our showdown with a legendary dragon!"). It sounds like there isn't, or they don't think there is. Bear in mind that there is a substantial risk of the group becoming wanted criminals if they pursue your plan, and although your "blame it on the cultists" scheme is clever (and fun!), it may well come down to passing a single deception roll, which is no guarantee of it working. Many DM's like to come up with complications for this sort of thing because it generates more adventure. This may be a simple matter of the risk v. reward not seeming worthwhile to them, in which case the best angle might be to figure out ways to eliminate (or at least persuade them that you have eliminated) the risk.



          Once again I am not trying to suggest that you are playing "wrong" or that you can not have many rewarding experiences playing with this group even if they play a little different than you. Nor do I really know much of anything about you or your group and the social dynamics that actually have arisen therein in or out of game. But I do think you have to account for the possible issues above, which may strike with or without anyone realizing. You should talk with them about what is going on out of and/or in character to make whatever precisely is making you and possibly them unhappy with how things are going. You don't necessarily need to make a big deal about it, some groups need only a slight sharing of perspectives to come to a quick compromise.






          share|improve this answer









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            $begingroup$

            Be Careful with a "Do Whatever I Want" Character Dynamic.



            On the one hand letting your character dictate everything you do is problematic and means potentially giving up all decision making as a player, which starts to become more an acting exercise than a game. However a character who acts with no personality beyond what the player feels like doing at the moment is hardly a character at all. There is a reason the whole inspiration mechanic was introduced to reward players who make a character-based decision that is suboptimal as a game choice: it makes for a more immersive and interesting game experience through good roleplaying, at least theoretically.



            It may be that, do to an inconsistency of behavior, your group is finding your character underdeveloped and having trouble investing in him enough to accommodate his wishes, or just objecting to a somewhat "powergame"-ish move or a "murder hobo" playstyle. I am not trying to criticise or mischaracterize your playstyle (your fun is not wrong!), but simply draw attention to how it might not be meshing with this particular group.



            If it is a matter of them just not liking this dynamic in your character there are ways you might be able to persuade them otherwise. You might try to make your character's audacious behavior as entertaining as possible, or make him a sympathetic person trying to do good but forever drawn to temptation. It may even be that playing up the "do whatever he wants" to the hilt will work for them just fine if you just provide compelling enough character reasons for why he thinks and acts the way he does.



            You also seem to have a conception of a chaotic neutral alignment that many people, including perhaps your group, would find dubious. It is hard to argue that robbing and holding captive an innocent person for pure personal gain is not evil (if that is what you are doing). Although moral neutrality has a lot of leeway, a person who frequently does evil things is evil in many people's book whether they do good at other times or not. Reasonable minds vary wildly in how they think alignments should be defined and applied. This may be rubbing other players the wrong way or just not something they think their characters would reasonably participate in (even if they would tolerate you doing it solo).



            The group might feel different about the plan if there is a greater good or at least some greater adventure purpose behind it (ie: "We need these health potions to survive our showdown with a legendary dragon!"). It sounds like there isn't, or they don't think there is. Bear in mind that there is a substantial risk of the group becoming wanted criminals if they pursue your plan, and although your "blame it on the cultists" scheme is clever (and fun!), it may well come down to passing a single deception roll, which is no guarantee of it working. Many DM's like to come up with complications for this sort of thing because it generates more adventure. This may be a simple matter of the risk v. reward not seeming worthwhile to them, in which case the best angle might be to figure out ways to eliminate (or at least persuade them that you have eliminated) the risk.



            Once again I am not trying to suggest that you are playing "wrong" or that you can not have many rewarding experiences playing with this group even if they play a little different than you. Nor do I really know much of anything about you or your group and the social dynamics that actually have arisen therein in or out of game. But I do think you have to account for the possible issues above, which may strike with or without anyone realizing. You should talk with them about what is going on out of and/or in character to make whatever precisely is making you and possibly them unhappy with how things are going. You don't necessarily need to make a big deal about it, some groups need only a slight sharing of perspectives to come to a quick compromise.






            share|improve this answer









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              7





              $begingroup$

              Be Careful with a "Do Whatever I Want" Character Dynamic.



              On the one hand letting your character dictate everything you do is problematic and means potentially giving up all decision making as a player, which starts to become more an acting exercise than a game. However a character who acts with no personality beyond what the player feels like doing at the moment is hardly a character at all. There is a reason the whole inspiration mechanic was introduced to reward players who make a character-based decision that is suboptimal as a game choice: it makes for a more immersive and interesting game experience through good roleplaying, at least theoretically.



              It may be that, do to an inconsistency of behavior, your group is finding your character underdeveloped and having trouble investing in him enough to accommodate his wishes, or just objecting to a somewhat "powergame"-ish move or a "murder hobo" playstyle. I am not trying to criticise or mischaracterize your playstyle (your fun is not wrong!), but simply draw attention to how it might not be meshing with this particular group.



              If it is a matter of them just not liking this dynamic in your character there are ways you might be able to persuade them otherwise. You might try to make your character's audacious behavior as entertaining as possible, or make him a sympathetic person trying to do good but forever drawn to temptation. It may even be that playing up the "do whatever he wants" to the hilt will work for them just fine if you just provide compelling enough character reasons for why he thinks and acts the way he does.



              You also seem to have a conception of a chaotic neutral alignment that many people, including perhaps your group, would find dubious. It is hard to argue that robbing and holding captive an innocent person for pure personal gain is not evil (if that is what you are doing). Although moral neutrality has a lot of leeway, a person who frequently does evil things is evil in many people's book whether they do good at other times or not. Reasonable minds vary wildly in how they think alignments should be defined and applied. This may be rubbing other players the wrong way or just not something they think their characters would reasonably participate in (even if they would tolerate you doing it solo).



              The group might feel different about the plan if there is a greater good or at least some greater adventure purpose behind it (ie: "We need these health potions to survive our showdown with a legendary dragon!"). It sounds like there isn't, or they don't think there is. Bear in mind that there is a substantial risk of the group becoming wanted criminals if they pursue your plan, and although your "blame it on the cultists" scheme is clever (and fun!), it may well come down to passing a single deception roll, which is no guarantee of it working. Many DM's like to come up with complications for this sort of thing because it generates more adventure. This may be a simple matter of the risk v. reward not seeming worthwhile to them, in which case the best angle might be to figure out ways to eliminate (or at least persuade them that you have eliminated) the risk.



              Once again I am not trying to suggest that you are playing "wrong" or that you can not have many rewarding experiences playing with this group even if they play a little different than you. Nor do I really know much of anything about you or your group and the social dynamics that actually have arisen therein in or out of game. But I do think you have to account for the possible issues above, which may strike with or without anyone realizing. You should talk with them about what is going on out of and/or in character to make whatever precisely is making you and possibly them unhappy with how things are going. You don't necessarily need to make a big deal about it, some groups need only a slight sharing of perspectives to come to a quick compromise.






              share|improve this answer









              $endgroup$



              Be Careful with a "Do Whatever I Want" Character Dynamic.



              On the one hand letting your character dictate everything you do is problematic and means potentially giving up all decision making as a player, which starts to become more an acting exercise than a game. However a character who acts with no personality beyond what the player feels like doing at the moment is hardly a character at all. There is a reason the whole inspiration mechanic was introduced to reward players who make a character-based decision that is suboptimal as a game choice: it makes for a more immersive and interesting game experience through good roleplaying, at least theoretically.



              It may be that, do to an inconsistency of behavior, your group is finding your character underdeveloped and having trouble investing in him enough to accommodate his wishes, or just objecting to a somewhat "powergame"-ish move or a "murder hobo" playstyle. I am not trying to criticise or mischaracterize your playstyle (your fun is not wrong!), but simply draw attention to how it might not be meshing with this particular group.



              If it is a matter of them just not liking this dynamic in your character there are ways you might be able to persuade them otherwise. You might try to make your character's audacious behavior as entertaining as possible, or make him a sympathetic person trying to do good but forever drawn to temptation. It may even be that playing up the "do whatever he wants" to the hilt will work for them just fine if you just provide compelling enough character reasons for why he thinks and acts the way he does.



              You also seem to have a conception of a chaotic neutral alignment that many people, including perhaps your group, would find dubious. It is hard to argue that robbing and holding captive an innocent person for pure personal gain is not evil (if that is what you are doing). Although moral neutrality has a lot of leeway, a person who frequently does evil things is evil in many people's book whether they do good at other times or not. Reasonable minds vary wildly in how they think alignments should be defined and applied. This may be rubbing other players the wrong way or just not something they think their characters would reasonably participate in (even if they would tolerate you doing it solo).



              The group might feel different about the plan if there is a greater good or at least some greater adventure purpose behind it (ie: "We need these health potions to survive our showdown with a legendary dragon!"). It sounds like there isn't, or they don't think there is. Bear in mind that there is a substantial risk of the group becoming wanted criminals if they pursue your plan, and although your "blame it on the cultists" scheme is clever (and fun!), it may well come down to passing a single deception roll, which is no guarantee of it working. Many DM's like to come up with complications for this sort of thing because it generates more adventure. This may be a simple matter of the risk v. reward not seeming worthwhile to them, in which case the best angle might be to figure out ways to eliminate (or at least persuade them that you have eliminated) the risk.



              Once again I am not trying to suggest that you are playing "wrong" or that you can not have many rewarding experiences playing with this group even if they play a little different than you. Nor do I really know much of anything about you or your group and the social dynamics that actually have arisen therein in or out of game. But I do think you have to account for the possible issues above, which may strike with or without anyone realizing. You should talk with them about what is going on out of and/or in character to make whatever precisely is making you and possibly them unhappy with how things are going. You don't necessarily need to make a big deal about it, some groups need only a slight sharing of perspectives to come to a quick compromise.







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                  Your party needs a reason not to dump you for being more trouble than you're worth. By breaking group cohesion, you will become "That Guy." It's up to you whether or not you want to test their flexibility, because ultimately D&D is about everyone having fun.



                  This was the conclusion that my personal group made when we were discussing the drug abusing habits of our Dragonborn Druid in our current campaign. Our Dragonborn player, for whatever reason, really wanted to roleplay a drug addict that constantly needed her fix. This of course came at odds with NPC interaction, where the drug use, relapses, and other 'quirks' became a big pain point when the party was trying to get things done. The drug addict wanted to do drug addict things; the party wanted to go on quests and make allies.



                  Ultimately, we had to talk amongst ourselves and basically tell that player that the party needs a reason why they wouldn't kick this person to the curb immediately. Outside of IRL connection, there's no sane reason why a party would want to quest with her. And this is going to be a key point you're going to have to face.



                  Neither of you are in the wrong for what you enjoy, but it does need to be cleared up so that this does not become a point of contention. You must talk about it with the other players and come to some sort of agreement about gameplay desires.



                  If your fun is that at odds with the group, you will be better served by finding a new group, and they would be happier off as well. If this is not a possibility, you must consider adjusting your playstyle.






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                    $begingroup$

                    Your party needs a reason not to dump you for being more trouble than you're worth. By breaking group cohesion, you will become "That Guy." It's up to you whether or not you want to test their flexibility, because ultimately D&D is about everyone having fun.



                    This was the conclusion that my personal group made when we were discussing the drug abusing habits of our Dragonborn Druid in our current campaign. Our Dragonborn player, for whatever reason, really wanted to roleplay a drug addict that constantly needed her fix. This of course came at odds with NPC interaction, where the drug use, relapses, and other 'quirks' became a big pain point when the party was trying to get things done. The drug addict wanted to do drug addict things; the party wanted to go on quests and make allies.



                    Ultimately, we had to talk amongst ourselves and basically tell that player that the party needs a reason why they wouldn't kick this person to the curb immediately. Outside of IRL connection, there's no sane reason why a party would want to quest with her. And this is going to be a key point you're going to have to face.



                    Neither of you are in the wrong for what you enjoy, but it does need to be cleared up so that this does not become a point of contention. You must talk about it with the other players and come to some sort of agreement about gameplay desires.



                    If your fun is that at odds with the group, you will be better served by finding a new group, and they would be happier off as well. If this is not a possibility, you must consider adjusting your playstyle.






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                      $begingroup$

                      Your party needs a reason not to dump you for being more trouble than you're worth. By breaking group cohesion, you will become "That Guy." It's up to you whether or not you want to test their flexibility, because ultimately D&D is about everyone having fun.



                      This was the conclusion that my personal group made when we were discussing the drug abusing habits of our Dragonborn Druid in our current campaign. Our Dragonborn player, for whatever reason, really wanted to roleplay a drug addict that constantly needed her fix. This of course came at odds with NPC interaction, where the drug use, relapses, and other 'quirks' became a big pain point when the party was trying to get things done. The drug addict wanted to do drug addict things; the party wanted to go on quests and make allies.



                      Ultimately, we had to talk amongst ourselves and basically tell that player that the party needs a reason why they wouldn't kick this person to the curb immediately. Outside of IRL connection, there's no sane reason why a party would want to quest with her. And this is going to be a key point you're going to have to face.



                      Neither of you are in the wrong for what you enjoy, but it does need to be cleared up so that this does not become a point of contention. You must talk about it with the other players and come to some sort of agreement about gameplay desires.



                      If your fun is that at odds with the group, you will be better served by finding a new group, and they would be happier off as well. If this is not a possibility, you must consider adjusting your playstyle.






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                      $endgroup$



                      Your party needs a reason not to dump you for being more trouble than you're worth. By breaking group cohesion, you will become "That Guy." It's up to you whether or not you want to test their flexibility, because ultimately D&D is about everyone having fun.



                      This was the conclusion that my personal group made when we were discussing the drug abusing habits of our Dragonborn Druid in our current campaign. Our Dragonborn player, for whatever reason, really wanted to roleplay a drug addict that constantly needed her fix. This of course came at odds with NPC interaction, where the drug use, relapses, and other 'quirks' became a big pain point when the party was trying to get things done. The drug addict wanted to do drug addict things; the party wanted to go on quests and make allies.



                      Ultimately, we had to talk amongst ourselves and basically tell that player that the party needs a reason why they wouldn't kick this person to the curb immediately. Outside of IRL connection, there's no sane reason why a party would want to quest with her. And this is going to be a key point you're going to have to face.



                      Neither of you are in the wrong for what you enjoy, but it does need to be cleared up so that this does not become a point of contention. You must talk about it with the other players and come to some sort of agreement about gameplay desires.



                      If your fun is that at odds with the group, you will be better served by finding a new group, and they would be happier off as well. If this is not a possibility, you must consider adjusting your playstyle.







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                          $begingroup$

                          Listen to your fellow players



                          Unless you all agreed ahead of the time that internal party strife, or PvP, is part of how your gaming group will enjoy this game, going out of your way to create internal conflict will detract from, not add to, the fun you all have at the table as a group of people playing a game.



                          You are the new player. You want to be chaotic neutral, disruptive, and do "anything you want." This is a symptom of My Guy Syndrome.




                          The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




                          That bolded part is a pretty good clue that something needs to change. You are, to put it bluntly, a fish out of water as both a player and a character.



                          So what do I do, Korvin?



                          First step is: be a better team player in a way that also progresses your character's in-character goals.



                          • Alternate first step is to create a different character that isn't an "I do
                            what a want and you all deal with the consequences" person in a party
                            mostly full of people working as a team.

                          Second Step is: after your have all adventured together enough to get into Tier 2 play, you may find that some intra-party disputes/conflict is OK as a group, and fun. PvP can be fun. Work that out with your fellow players rather than dropping it on them as a fait accompli, which is what you are doing now.



                          The game's core assumption is that a party is a team



                          D&D 5e's tacit assumption is that (particularly at early levels) the party is working together during adventures. Tier 1 (levels 1-4) is even described as being undertaken by apprentice adventurers. (Basic Rules, p. 12)




                          In the first tier (levels 1–4), characters are effectively apprentice
                          adventurers. They are learning the features that define them as
                          members of particular classes, including the major choices that flavor
                          their class features as they advance (such as a wizard’s Arcane
                          Tradition or a fighter’s Martial Archetype). The threats they face are
                          relatively minor, usually posing a danger to local farmsteads or
                          villages. In the second tier (levels 5–10), characters come into their
                          own ...




                          Bottom Line Recommendation



                          Be a better team player, at least until you are no longer a beginner. Work out a mutually agreeable phase of the campaign where more PvP style play is acceptable, or if it ever will be with this play group.



                          Optional recommendation



                          There are some other games, like Paranoia, that are explicitly Player versus Player. Maybe one night you can all take a break from D&D and play that game to have some PVP fun.



                          Why do I advise this as your course of action?



                          Because we play games to have fun, and creating player-on-player conflict in a cooperatively based games frequently wrecks the fun. I have even seen some friendships ruined IRL from friction created during a game.

                          Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, please do let it happen to you.






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                            3












                            $begingroup$

                            Listen to your fellow players



                            Unless you all agreed ahead of the time that internal party strife, or PvP, is part of how your gaming group will enjoy this game, going out of your way to create internal conflict will detract from, not add to, the fun you all have at the table as a group of people playing a game.



                            You are the new player. You want to be chaotic neutral, disruptive, and do "anything you want." This is a symptom of My Guy Syndrome.




                            The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




                            That bolded part is a pretty good clue that something needs to change. You are, to put it bluntly, a fish out of water as both a player and a character.



                            So what do I do, Korvin?



                            First step is: be a better team player in a way that also progresses your character's in-character goals.



                            • Alternate first step is to create a different character that isn't an "I do
                              what a want and you all deal with the consequences" person in a party
                              mostly full of people working as a team.

                            Second Step is: after your have all adventured together enough to get into Tier 2 play, you may find that some intra-party disputes/conflict is OK as a group, and fun. PvP can be fun. Work that out with your fellow players rather than dropping it on them as a fait accompli, which is what you are doing now.



                            The game's core assumption is that a party is a team



                            D&D 5e's tacit assumption is that (particularly at early levels) the party is working together during adventures. Tier 1 (levels 1-4) is even described as being undertaken by apprentice adventurers. (Basic Rules, p. 12)




                            In the first tier (levels 1–4), characters are effectively apprentice
                            adventurers. They are learning the features that define them as
                            members of particular classes, including the major choices that flavor
                            their class features as they advance (such as a wizard’s Arcane
                            Tradition or a fighter’s Martial Archetype). The threats they face are
                            relatively minor, usually posing a danger to local farmsteads or
                            villages. In the second tier (levels 5–10), characters come into their
                            own ...




                            Bottom Line Recommendation



                            Be a better team player, at least until you are no longer a beginner. Work out a mutually agreeable phase of the campaign where more PvP style play is acceptable, or if it ever will be with this play group.



                            Optional recommendation



                            There are some other games, like Paranoia, that are explicitly Player versus Player. Maybe one night you can all take a break from D&D and play that game to have some PVP fun.



                            Why do I advise this as your course of action?



                            Because we play games to have fun, and creating player-on-player conflict in a cooperatively based games frequently wrecks the fun. I have even seen some friendships ruined IRL from friction created during a game.

                            Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, please do let it happen to you.






                            share|improve this answer











                            $endgroup$















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                              3








                              3





                              $begingroup$

                              Listen to your fellow players



                              Unless you all agreed ahead of the time that internal party strife, or PvP, is part of how your gaming group will enjoy this game, going out of your way to create internal conflict will detract from, not add to, the fun you all have at the table as a group of people playing a game.



                              You are the new player. You want to be chaotic neutral, disruptive, and do "anything you want." This is a symptom of My Guy Syndrome.




                              The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




                              That bolded part is a pretty good clue that something needs to change. You are, to put it bluntly, a fish out of water as both a player and a character.



                              So what do I do, Korvin?



                              First step is: be a better team player in a way that also progresses your character's in-character goals.



                              • Alternate first step is to create a different character that isn't an "I do
                                what a want and you all deal with the consequences" person in a party
                                mostly full of people working as a team.

                              Second Step is: after your have all adventured together enough to get into Tier 2 play, you may find that some intra-party disputes/conflict is OK as a group, and fun. PvP can be fun. Work that out with your fellow players rather than dropping it on them as a fait accompli, which is what you are doing now.



                              The game's core assumption is that a party is a team



                              D&D 5e's tacit assumption is that (particularly at early levels) the party is working together during adventures. Tier 1 (levels 1-4) is even described as being undertaken by apprentice adventurers. (Basic Rules, p. 12)




                              In the first tier (levels 1–4), characters are effectively apprentice
                              adventurers. They are learning the features that define them as
                              members of particular classes, including the major choices that flavor
                              their class features as they advance (such as a wizard’s Arcane
                              Tradition or a fighter’s Martial Archetype). The threats they face are
                              relatively minor, usually posing a danger to local farmsteads or
                              villages. In the second tier (levels 5–10), characters come into their
                              own ...




                              Bottom Line Recommendation



                              Be a better team player, at least until you are no longer a beginner. Work out a mutually agreeable phase of the campaign where more PvP style play is acceptable, or if it ever will be with this play group.



                              Optional recommendation



                              There are some other games, like Paranoia, that are explicitly Player versus Player. Maybe one night you can all take a break from D&D and play that game to have some PVP fun.



                              Why do I advise this as your course of action?



                              Because we play games to have fun, and creating player-on-player conflict in a cooperatively based games frequently wrecks the fun. I have even seen some friendships ruined IRL from friction created during a game.

                              Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, please do let it happen to you.






                              share|improve this answer











                              $endgroup$



                              Listen to your fellow players



                              Unless you all agreed ahead of the time that internal party strife, or PvP, is part of how your gaming group will enjoy this game, going out of your way to create internal conflict will detract from, not add to, the fun you all have at the table as a group of people playing a game.



                              You are the new player. You want to be chaotic neutral, disruptive, and do "anything you want." This is a symptom of My Guy Syndrome.




                              The other PCs are either lawful or good and are mostly ok with the actions but the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




                              That bolded part is a pretty good clue that something needs to change. You are, to put it bluntly, a fish out of water as both a player and a character.



                              So what do I do, Korvin?



                              First step is: be a better team player in a way that also progresses your character's in-character goals.



                              • Alternate first step is to create a different character that isn't an "I do
                                what a want and you all deal with the consequences" person in a party
                                mostly full of people working as a team.

                              Second Step is: after your have all adventured together enough to get into Tier 2 play, you may find that some intra-party disputes/conflict is OK as a group, and fun. PvP can be fun. Work that out with your fellow players rather than dropping it on them as a fait accompli, which is what you are doing now.



                              The game's core assumption is that a party is a team



                              D&D 5e's tacit assumption is that (particularly at early levels) the party is working together during adventures. Tier 1 (levels 1-4) is even described as being undertaken by apprentice adventurers. (Basic Rules, p. 12)




                              In the first tier (levels 1–4), characters are effectively apprentice
                              adventurers. They are learning the features that define them as
                              members of particular classes, including the major choices that flavor
                              their class features as they advance (such as a wizard’s Arcane
                              Tradition or a fighter’s Martial Archetype). The threats they face are
                              relatively minor, usually posing a danger to local farmsteads or
                              villages. In the second tier (levels 5–10), characters come into their
                              own ...




                              Bottom Line Recommendation



                              Be a better team player, at least until you are no longer a beginner. Work out a mutually agreeable phase of the campaign where more PvP style play is acceptable, or if it ever will be with this play group.



                              Optional recommendation



                              There are some other games, like Paranoia, that are explicitly Player versus Player. Maybe one night you can all take a break from D&D and play that game to have some PVP fun.



                              Why do I advise this as your course of action?



                              Because we play games to have fun, and creating player-on-player conflict in a cooperatively based games frequently wrecks the fun. I have even seen some friendships ruined IRL from friction created during a game.

                              Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, please do let it happen to you.







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                                  $begingroup$

                                  Take responsibility, apologize, and move forward collaboratively.



                                  Recognize that the players make the decisions.



                                  Role playing is essentially:



                                  1. The DM describes the environment.

                                  2. The player decides what to do.

                                  3. The player role plays that decision by describing what a character does.

                                  4. The DM narrates the results of their actions.

                                  Each player is responsible for the decisions. The characters are just some text on a page that are a tool for role playing. Recognizing this helps avoid my guy syndrome



                                  Apologize if you feel it's appropriate



                                  It's no small feat to recognize when others are irritated or uncomfortable.




                                  the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




                                  A simple, honest, and straight-forward apology in the event misstepp (even without wrong doing) can make a big impact. E.g. "I'm sorry. I didn't read the room as well as I thought I had."



                                  Collaborate and listen



                                  Make decisions that are copacetic with the other players and characters. Allow your ideas and plans to be flexible.



                                  Be tempered by your companions.



                                  Have the character remark what their initial impulse is to do, but reflect that their party probably wouldn't like it. E.g. "My ol' uncle would 'ave jus' tied the plump hawker up an' taken the lot... but I guess we can not do that this time."



                                  Maybe make the initial desire to do wrong and be reigned in by the expressions of the other characters a running gag, or perhaps a chance for character growth. Likely, a time will crop up where the party will want to leverage the nature of the scoundrel character.






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                                    $begingroup$

                                    Take responsibility, apologize, and move forward collaboratively.



                                    Recognize that the players make the decisions.



                                    Role playing is essentially:



                                    1. The DM describes the environment.

                                    2. The player decides what to do.

                                    3. The player role plays that decision by describing what a character does.

                                    4. The DM narrates the results of their actions.

                                    Each player is responsible for the decisions. The characters are just some text on a page that are a tool for role playing. Recognizing this helps avoid my guy syndrome



                                    Apologize if you feel it's appropriate



                                    It's no small feat to recognize when others are irritated or uncomfortable.




                                    the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




                                    A simple, honest, and straight-forward apology in the event misstepp (even without wrong doing) can make a big impact. E.g. "I'm sorry. I didn't read the room as well as I thought I had."



                                    Collaborate and listen



                                    Make decisions that are copacetic with the other players and characters. Allow your ideas and plans to be flexible.



                                    Be tempered by your companions.



                                    Have the character remark what their initial impulse is to do, but reflect that their party probably wouldn't like it. E.g. "My ol' uncle would 'ave jus' tied the plump hawker up an' taken the lot... but I guess we can not do that this time."



                                    Maybe make the initial desire to do wrong and be reigned in by the expressions of the other characters a running gag, or perhaps a chance for character growth. Likely, a time will crop up where the party will want to leverage the nature of the scoundrel character.






                                    share|improve this answer









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                                      2





                                      $begingroup$

                                      Take responsibility, apologize, and move forward collaboratively.



                                      Recognize that the players make the decisions.



                                      Role playing is essentially:



                                      1. The DM describes the environment.

                                      2. The player decides what to do.

                                      3. The player role plays that decision by describing what a character does.

                                      4. The DM narrates the results of their actions.

                                      Each player is responsible for the decisions. The characters are just some text on a page that are a tool for role playing. Recognizing this helps avoid my guy syndrome



                                      Apologize if you feel it's appropriate



                                      It's no small feat to recognize when others are irritated or uncomfortable.




                                      the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




                                      A simple, honest, and straight-forward apology in the event misstepp (even without wrong doing) can make a big impact. E.g. "I'm sorry. I didn't read the room as well as I thought I had."



                                      Collaborate and listen



                                      Make decisions that are copacetic with the other players and characters. Allow your ideas and plans to be flexible.



                                      Be tempered by your companions.



                                      Have the character remark what their initial impulse is to do, but reflect that their party probably wouldn't like it. E.g. "My ol' uncle would 'ave jus' tied the plump hawker up an' taken the lot... but I guess we can not do that this time."



                                      Maybe make the initial desire to do wrong and be reigned in by the expressions of the other characters a running gag, or perhaps a chance for character growth. Likely, a time will crop up where the party will want to leverage the nature of the scoundrel character.






                                      share|improve this answer









                                      $endgroup$



                                      Take responsibility, apologize, and move forward collaboratively.



                                      Recognize that the players make the decisions.



                                      Role playing is essentially:



                                      1. The DM describes the environment.

                                      2. The player decides what to do.

                                      3. The player role plays that decision by describing what a character does.

                                      4. The DM narrates the results of their actions.

                                      Each player is responsible for the decisions. The characters are just some text on a page that are a tool for role playing. Recognizing this helps avoid my guy syndrome



                                      Apologize if you feel it's appropriate



                                      It's no small feat to recognize when others are irritated or uncomfortable.




                                      the other players don't like my plan and seem irritable when I talk about it. They say they don't really think that that is the point of our campaign so it really isn't a good decision.




                                      A simple, honest, and straight-forward apology in the event misstepp (even without wrong doing) can make a big impact. E.g. "I'm sorry. I didn't read the room as well as I thought I had."



                                      Collaborate and listen



                                      Make decisions that are copacetic with the other players and characters. Allow your ideas and plans to be flexible.



                                      Be tempered by your companions.



                                      Have the character remark what their initial impulse is to do, but reflect that their party probably wouldn't like it. E.g. "My ol' uncle would 'ave jus' tied the plump hawker up an' taken the lot... but I guess we can not do that this time."



                                      Maybe make the initial desire to do wrong and be reigned in by the expressions of the other characters a running gag, or perhaps a chance for character growth. Likely, a time will crop up where the party will want to leverage the nature of the scoundrel character.







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